Complex #4 - D talk started / Detaching continues

[Ontheup]

hey complex

I agree with Starsky. I think you need to just accept the reality is she is probably sleeping with him. My wife was same, new underwear appeared it was just more confirmation of what I already knew. It makes little difference. For a woman the physical is just an extension of the EA. Women sleep with a man when they are emotionally connected.
You need to push it out of your mind. It will drive you crazy if you don't.
If you want to know then you could find out but do you really want to see/hear your wife with another man? I certainly don't. I know enough already.