Ya Starsky, you are very right. If I am just guessing I'll just come across as a controlling, desperate freak. But at this point I have no evidence of whatsoever. She encrypted her iphone backup and changed her passcode a while ago. I have no way of finding things out at the moment. So I have to hold myself back...which I have to do big time anyway. If I'm in the state that I'm in right now I clearly better go out of her way.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15