Oh, Susana! (3)

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Thank you for the cheerleading, Zelda! I needed it today.

Hope you're doing well and celebrating your H's good news

I'm GALing tonight, going to a roller disco so I probably won't see H for long but I will have my PMA on (and a cute dress). If the atmosphere and timing feels right I think I will go ahead and invite H to go to the maze this weekend. It would be a nice way to catch up, I want to hear about his trip.

My H shared a funny meme with me last night - men are like dogs; we're excited to see you and we don't know why you're mad at us.
Haha, that is so true!

Yes, probably true he wasn't having a good time at home. I didn't make coming home a pleasant experience either, I have to admit (if he was late and I was annoyed I wouldn't greet him very happily).

Thanks Z, I think that's great advice, it's in line with what my DB coach told me, that I can start dropping some comments about stuff I've realised I was doing. What I struggled with is the setting, the last time H and I had a convo like that (awhile ago) and we were sitting in a coffee shop and after some time he clearly wanted out of the convo but was trapped. Not good. Good suggestion about doing it somewhere he won't feel trapped.

I found one of the best couple of days H and I had in recent times was a few weeks back where I tried to imagine we weren't M, but he was a guy I liked and was getting to know (like, very early stages of dating) - we laughed, flirted, I was smiley and happy and telling jokes. In short, it was great! Think I will take that approach again on our comedy night out.

Thanks for the positivity Zelda!