Jim

I am seeing Jim as active and not 'passively standing by', Jim if you were applying Sandi guidelines then that is a very active thing. Nothing passive about DB, working on Jim is an active thing.

Some one new?

Meeting someone and interacting with them is about proximity, not meat market. I said this to Gg and I say it you, you only need one person you like to like you and you are off and running.

I will say this in the kindest way I can, I really hope you never have to date, that if R with W is no more then that someone you like likes you and away you go. Friendliness is not so hard and it strikes me you are excellent at it. The important part is the R part, the DB part not the best bib and tucker bit. I am sure that if you GAL then opportunities will arise, friends have friends etc.

It may surprise you but even V gets asked to go for coffee sometimes and makes it clear coffee only. Start with coffee, or a beer, and friendship and see what happens. It does not have to be full on.

Take it easy Jim, sex can be self satisfying too. Being with someone just for pleasure will I would like to bet be unsatisfying and I think because you are a deep person leave you with no real self esteem.

I was looking at my black toenail which happened about the same time as your argument between foot and wall, and was wondering if that had healed yet?

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 02/13/15 03:26 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW