The way you handled it is a 180 for you. Sounds like you handled it from a calm place. I'm sure you have found that it isn't as emotionally taxing when you don't get worked up.
Like Toots said, sometimes separation is a good thing. Continue to utilize your time wisely. Continue GAL, and addressing issues. That's a never ending process.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa