When we try to control another person they will either fight back or flee. I am not saying that your H's behaviors were appropriate. I can see why it would bother you. It sounds as if he didn't care about how much work you put into preparing a meal for him and you. The good thing is that you are seeing it now. If it was to happen again how would you handle it differently?


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden