Does your XH still live with you and your kids in your home? Or do you just allow him to come there to shower and get ready for work?
I know he was trying to come back to R, then baby was born and now he is back with OW..so is he living with you and her?
Are you ok with him living or coming to the house to shower?
This back and forth is going to be harder. My H is at home and its hard, I could not imagine knowing he is back and forth at our home and then at OW home.
And mighty this is your XH, so I'm not trying to be mean but really you dont have to put up with anything from him,..you are D from him, this is you XH!
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW