Those are really good observations by the coach. You remind me soooo much of me and my behaviors. I did the same things. Used to get upset when ex came home late. If she was quiet i used to take personally thinking she was angry at me. After a while she probably felt as if she was walking on egg shells. I assume your H is going through the same. This experience forced me to look at myself and just relax.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
