Mighty this too shall pass. I felt angry too after a set back when my ex tried getting closer a few months ago. They are dangerous to us when they are still in their crisis. We have to be stronger and protect ourselves from them. I know I did everything possible and then even more to try and make our marriage work and so did you. You deserve that same loyalty and love in return.
Karma, You posted this to me like last week or something. I reread it and reposted it. I need to read it again and again. It is really good. We do need to protect ourselves. Be stronger. And the loyalty and love... yeah, we deserve that. I mean.. think about it... all the loyalty we give. The love. What we put ourselves through- for them and our family. How we learn and grow- and what we deal with and put up with... because of loyalty and love. And what do we get in return?
I am not saying this with bitterness. But, I guess the point is, that if I am detached enough, I don't have to feel this burden or weight. His problems are not my problems. And by the looks of it... I am his problem now. Bc he hurt me again. Outside of that, it seems as though he has it figured out. But, still not a life I want. So its OK if that's what he wants.
I totally went left with this post. Went on a tangent. Didn't mean to. Just really liked karma's words.
