Stayed up late last night catching up on people's journey. Th ere are lots of people from my rough times who are no longer posting which is a let down. Hope they are all doing well. AS, Crimson, GH31 to name a few.

Still it was good to see people like Starsky and 25 still around! Huge Huge assets! Larger than life characters!

It was really an eye opener to read posts from the newcomers. Oh h ow they sound like I sounded back in the day. OM this and OM dos that...how do I act towards my W? Lol

I learned a lot from the insights my wife has given me since we patched things up. About the mind of a person in crisis, the confusion, the pain, the torment. I'd like to use this to try to bring some sense into other newcomers lives.. however reading the new posts from the vets I am reminded that I have a lot to learn still.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017