Go for it OD! And if your W says, hey you spoiled my V Day and birthday by not being there to babysit? You can say W - I love spending time with our boys. But, I draw the line at looking after them whilst you conduct a R with another man.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus