Well, it looks like I won't be going back home this weekend after all. Here's the text I received this morning from her.

Hi again

When I asked you to reconsider, my aim was for the four of us to do something to mark the occasion.

I didn't know at that stage that you had a music festival. Nor did I know that S15 would be unwell.

My aim wasn't to get you here for you to feel upset if I went out at any point.

I will want to see OM at some point tomorrow - not necessarily the evening.

Maybe you need to think carefully about coming back, for yours and the boys' sake, if you think it's going to affect you?

How selfish can you get? It's obvious she doesn't give a flying **** about me.

I'm holding off responding until I can safely do it without abuse.

M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner