So I have a question for you all, currently I am spending a lot of time with W but whenever I am about to leave the house, she runs off to the bedroom like she is trying to end my visit first.

Secondly I have noticed we have productive conversations and fun outside of the house, but when in the house she just talks about herself for hours on end. I am being a good listener but these are in no way conversations, I could say anything and she wouldn't hear.

Should I spend less time with her even though she is initiating these meetings? Should I be less available when she wants to use me for emotional support to discuss her work and other issues that are bothering her?


T:13 yrs M:11
Me: 36
Her: 33
Living apart
Her having affair
She Asked me to move out 26th jan 2015
3 kids D13 S10 D10
D not mentioned yet