W still having PA with OP

[Ontheup]

I know it's hard but don't read into anything your wife does for you right now. My wife is the same. Still best buddies wanting to talk and open up to me. She was annoyed last night because I was a bit aloof before we all went ice skating. She was annoyed I didn't ask about her first councilling session. She then proceeded to tell me all about it. Why? I know today she will be off with OM. She's just keeping my plate spinning. I think she would do it for ever or until she decides what she wants. Me and family or fantasy land OM.
As for divorce, me personally I won't be initiating it. My friend got divorced very quickly after seperation and they now wish they were back together. Can't as both with other people. I don't think it should be used as a tool to scare your wife. If she calls you out on it then you'll have to follow through. Making decisions while emotions are so high is generally a mistake. I read an article somewhere yesterday about questions you need to ask yourself before filing. Basically saying "have you done everything? Are you done" from what I readon your posts your not. Be prepared for it though.