Listen to 25, what she is saying is spot on. Do not bother yourself at all with OM. He is beneath you and not worth it.

Took me too long to realize the exact things 25 is telling you. You can do it though because it is in you. Let it out. Be that person that you know you can be.

Keep at it.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017