OM has recently dumped W to try to rebuild with his partner. W is devasted, but has started testing the water with me to see how I feel about our M. Clearly at the moment I would be second choice, fall back option, which is no good basis for a M.
I have been doing LRT since W revealed the affair. Obviously that wasn't what caused OM to dump W, but it does seem to have given me some form of respect from W.
My question is, at what point would it be appropriate to move on from LRT? She is still in communication with OM, so should LRT continue until comms with OM are finished?
