I would agree with what 25yrs said. Before I moved out I still shopped and if I cooked a meal I made enough for all of us. I did not go out of my way to do things for my ex as I had before. It was more a matter of we are eating there is more there if you want some.

I think once you start learning more about codependent behavior you will become more enlightened.

Keep the GAL list going.....life does not have to be this hard. Make time for fun!

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.