Devotion to a dream...

[phunguy]

Well it seems my rebuffing her has brought back her bitterness and hatred for me. I expected two scenarios the current one where her attempts to use me wouldn't work and she became angry or feeling resentment because I've not succumbed to her advances this morning and the other being she would try to make with the nicety, make me plan B or keep under her control. She immediately began talking to me tonight in a difficult tone tinged with anger. Reminding me that she's going "away" next weekend to her girlfriends house as if she's trying to hurt me. And talking to me about the fact that she's making a plan to get our kids into daycare and further that she is willing to go to counseling but only for our son and if I think she's gong to talk about us I'm mistaken, ok. I dnt know how she thinks she will avoid it. I old her that this is her show and its up to her as to how our son is told of her decision my suggestion is that we do it in a counseling setting. I'm not sure she's in agreement but said she would attend family counseling for our son. I don't see how our R doesn't become a topic of discussion. It was all very interesting to be a part of. I'm not trying to figure her out I'm going to bed and detaching goodnight.