What do I think? I think you better be inviting some friends over! Sounds to me like you have a perfect excuse to get some serious GAL-partying in the works!!!
As for texts? Remember: shorter/less information is sweeter.
But I'd rather talk about an impromptu party! So who's on the guest list??
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014