W still having PA with OP

[twinmom]

So what would happen if when W came home you left? Even though W wants to go workout and leave you with the responsibilities of being a parent......... why don't you try planning something and when she gets home say "so glad you're here, a friend called with a last minute invite see ya later" and don't wait for her to respond just grab your coat and walk out the door.....

Changes the dynamics a bit to where you are in control of your evening and putting yourself in a better PMA...