W just called before her plane left. She said that I seemed upset and that she was really worried that I was mad at her and was going to leave her. I said we needed to talk when she got home, but that it ought to be in person. She alternated between crying and trying to blame me for making her so upset before her flight, but I stuck to my guns and said we'd need to talk in person.

Yep. She's spinning. Remember Starsky's "Infidelitus interruptus"? Mission accomplished ... EXCEPT it's accomplished right before you face her instead of right as she was on her way to her destination.

That's okay.

GREAT job on your part in the conversation; I'm impressed.

Now stay focused, and stay strong and resolved.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014