Not sure what to do

[Train]

Kieran,

Don't project too much here. You have instincts and A LOT of sound advice from some of the wisest, heaviest hitters on these boards. Trust their advice.

IF she immediately turns nice and offers to give up contact with OM, then there's a plethora of other steps you'll need to take to make sure the A is ended and that you have the transparency you need to move forward. It starts with a no-contact letter to OM. But that's a bridge to be crossed when you get there, especially considering - if I've read correctly - W works and/or travels with this guy. That's a really big mountain to climb, and right now, you need to simply be focused on keeping one foot in front of the other.

These situations are beasts. But you, my friend, are in the absolute best hands here.

Stay strong.