I didn't want you to freak out, sweetie... there is pretty much nothing that can't be worked out if given a chance to think things through.
Breathe.... PMA coming back up?
The only reason I recommended posting this is because I think it's helpful for others to see that your midnight calls aren't the result of a quirky obsessive compulsive addiction you have to phones in the middle of the night....
But because the truth is you have had reason to fear in the past.
The only time the past is helpful is if you can use it to analyze how to change things now.
Let's back up and go over the positives:
1. D told you about his dilemma 2. He did so knowing you might freak out 3. You said that he no longer lets his bus partner take cheap shots at you 4. D feels comfortable enough to tell you this, knowing that he had a R with 19 yr old OW from the parlor.
Let's figure this out. The phone still turns into a pumpkin tonight, right? Because there is no need to get worked up, Myrrh.
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."