Personally I would say ok but I have plans at x time so please wrap up your visit by such time..... My suggestion.... Invite a friend over for dinner/lunch/dessert and be preparing the meal while wife is there. Already be showered and wearing new cologne.....looking really good. Bottle of wine in a bucket of ice.... house spotless and bed made.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction