Personally I would say ok but I have plans at x time so please wrap up your visit by such time..... My suggestion....
Invite a friend over for dinner/lunch/dessert and be preparing the meal while wife is there. Already be showered and wearing new cologne.....looking really good. Bottle of wine in a bucket of ice.... house spotless and bed made.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction