Also: see how these actions - being light and breezy and confident - will show your H that you're working on being more positive? That will have far more impact than telling him you're making changes.
Men, especially, tend to be more action-oriented. I think you have a golden opportunity to really knock one of your 180s out of the ballpark with some actions that will show H you're now being more upbeat and positive.
That's true, H is not really a words person, he's much more action- and 'fix it' oriented like a lot of guys. But I think especially so as a computer geek!
One of my friends remarked today how I seemed much happier than in a long time. So, maybe it is noticeable without actually saying it!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
