Ok, I have my "homework" for this evening. Thank you guys.
One of the problems I have been running into lately as that since I take primary care of D6, since W is essentially WAW, I need to start finding more 30-60 minute things to do after school for us to enjoy together away from home. Unfortunately this time of year in my region, it is not warm enough most days for that type of activity but something I am going to continue to work on as well.
Me:39 W:33 Married 6/07 D6 Found out about affair 9/14