Sorry, I probably should have worded that better. In an ideal world, you'd still be sitting on the couch, having a wine, catching up on each other's days and building up a bank of positive interactions. Instead, everyone has called for darkness so you can learn to detach.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014
