I know I just decided against asking him about his move out date...but should I use this birthday party to figure out what in the world he is planning/thinking about "us"? I don't think he wants to stay, but he doesn't seem desperate to leave? My pleading and such has stopped, and I haven't asked him anything about us since at the retreat. No I love yous. I am trying to be patient with this process, but at some point I wonder if I am avoiding....


Me:30 H:31
D1
T: 7 years M: 3.5 years
BD: 12/2014
3 month S starts: 2/2015