Look gogofo, I know it may seem like I'm being hard on you but I'm just trying to keep your eyes wide open and protect yourself and your children. Look at what you just wrote:
Originally Posted By: gogofo
I don't think she will be too bad about it, but I want to be prepared for the worst.
And now go back a few pages and read where you wrote that she wanted to kick you out of the house just for not acknowledging that you received the divorce filing. Now, not only have you received the petition, but you've legally responded and challenged her position.
She's gonna be livid!!
That's why we want you to put your spew jacket on. You need to be calm and strong right now. In person. In front of her. You need to be prepared with statements like:
-I understand you're upset, but I will not discuss this with you if you won't talk to me respectfully.
-This isn't something I want, however I will take steps to protect my relationship with the children.
-I'm not willing to discuss the details of the divorce with you. My lawyer is handling that.
Fasten your seatbelt, it's gonna be a bumpy ride.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.