Told W I wouldn't be able to pick her up from the airport tonight and she called almost immediately, wanting to know "is something wrong"? The plan is to give her the clear and unequivocal statement tomorrow that my boundaries do not include an open marriage. I will then detach and give her space while I move forward and GAL. And on reflection, no sex either, as it seems to be part of the "cake and it too" thing she wants to get away with.
