Found more evidence of a EA/PA yesterday. I've been noticing that the W hasn't been smelling like perfume as she leaves for work recently. Last night her work bag was open and I peeked in and saw that she has been taking her perfume, toothpaste, toothbrush, and mouthwash to work with her. And she has been arriving home later and later. There was also a book on co-parenting in there.
I did have a pretty good session with my IC last night. Told her about this blog and we talked in great details about EAs, PAs and workplace romances. She really opened my eyes.
She's pulling more and more away, as she gets more comfortable in the other place she comes home later and later.
I know some of these posts sound like I am still score keeping, And I guess I am. But I am also very angry to be in this position. I know I have to work on that.
Anger is understandable, and even healthy. The key is not to be GOVERNED by it. Anger -- like emotions -- are part of who we are, just make sure you're not making major DECISIONS based on either one of them.
