Originally Posted By: 3kids
Is there better responses then, I'm sorry, have you ever talked to her about this, show how you feel, you know I love you, I'm sorry I can't control what your mom does, or sometimes just hug them and suggest we move on to a happier subject.

Any help on this matter is greatly appreciated!

Thanks
3kids

Nope.

You don't need to help her hang herself...she's doing a fine job on her own. Just be respectful and teach them to be respectful as well. No matter how they feel, she is still their mother. You be the man YOU want to be, which (I'm presuming) is a man who expects his children to be respectful, compassionate people no matter how anyone else acts. They should absolutely feel free and comfortable enough to vent their frustrations, but they may need to have the line of what is and what is not appropriate behavior enforced.

-PM


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