Hi Edz, I'll use V's phrase again, because I really like it - best not to worry about that, no doubt things will unravel in time....or words to that effect.

Who knows Edz? You offered help and a listening ear, and that's all you can really do now. Might FB have any relation to 'thing?"

I would say, relax and enjoy your evening, and think of some nice (cheap, due to C tax bill) GAL activities for the weekend. BTW, reading your interaction with your W about the C tax bill, you sounded quite apologetic for even broaching it. But, your W has made choices that have consequences, and this is one. Are you being a little too helpful, do you think?

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus