Hi edz. Back to my previous refrain about the pub.
It could be anything and not worth worrying about at the moment. It could easily be something really boring and mundane. Your w knows youre there for her, beyond that there isn't much else you can do - its not your sandbox.
So I'd say your doing the right thing by just chilling out (under the throw?). Calm is good
Chicken curry for me tonight - just waiting on rice
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress