Yes you have to respond to the petition. But I'm pretty sure there is NOTHING in there that requires you to respond to financials. That comes later. AFTER the Parenting Agreement.

It can take a good long while to get divorced, and that is why she's pushing you. Don't let her. And you don't have to be nasty. "I'm sorry W, but I'd prefer to let my lawyer handle all the details about the divorce." And walk away. And yes, she'll be mad. That's her issue, not yours!!! Have you ever read up on Boundaries?

And do you want to sell the family home? Seems like you were rushed into that decision as well.

Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.