I do have friends to hang out with. I had a hell of a good time last weekend when 5 of us went to a boat show.

I need to pick up some old hobbies again. I plan on setting up my drums that I haven't played in quite a while when I get into my new house. I actually gave up playing them in college, wanted to pick them up again when the W and I got our first house but "we" decided to set up a guest room instead of a room for my drums. I have a long record of putting other people first.

I would like to pick up an exercise routine. I have a friend that does kettle bell stuff that I want to try to see if I like it.

I need to file for professional registration in a neighboring state and study the local laws for testing.

In the meantime I have been stressing about getting our house packed up and sold. It consumes most of my free time.

We are supposed to be out by the 24th and sign papers.

I am supposed to sign papers on the new house on the 27th.

After that I will welcome the quiet and free time to set up my house and contemplate my future and what I want to do. I need the physical separation to get clarity, Sandi lined that out very well to me above.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15