I don't necessarily disagree with any of that, Hrd, but one thing I'd encourage you to chew on:

It's very true what they say about forgiveness -- it's a gift you give YOURSELF. It's not for her.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)