Seriously I guess I could be more specific but it's better I'm not.
What matters is I like it, and according to h and s17 I payed a heavy price for it.
Unfortunately most men seem to think if a woman has her own stuff her own wants needs and goals and works for them it's not ok. Says lot about how far feminism has to go on equality. Yeah, I watched a show on feminism this week, but what they said made sense. How even tho equality is supposely real often women's lives are defined by their role for serving men, raising children cleaning home being a great wife. Not saying those things are important. Listen to a women eulogy and a mans. Mans success is defined by deferent statements. The last funeral they talked of her being a great wife, great carer etc. They didn't give her credit for providing for her family even tho her h didn't.
I'm mean I could do better but work and farm required compromise. I cannot work ful time and want to spend all day and every spare hour I have doing work without having time for my hobby. It's why I wanted land. Everything in life's a balancing act, do any of us get the focus 100% all the time. Nope.
I am how ever sure there are far worse out there than me, who achieve far less and depend less on them selves and more in what others can do.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
