Valentines is one of those tricky ones (I've never done anything for valentines so doing something would be a massive 180 which makes it tempting)
with birthdays and christmas and the like you can send greetings etc. as 'friends' so not too much pursuit. I struggle to see how anything valentines related would not be seen as pursuit.
the potential for OW makes a big difference as well, how would he see it if he is in a relationship?
On the other no contact for a few weeks makes me think of the discussion on Ganb8te's thread.
I'm going to resort to the classic that has helped me a lot in the last few months.
Why is it you want to send something?
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
