Ok, 2x4s taken and duly noted. My DB coach had mentioned at one point I could lightly bring up in passing some things I was working on...she probably didn't mean in the light text on his vacation though. :S Action, not talking. Ok, I will. It's just hard for me because I'm a word person, so I feel like if I don't talk about my changes, they're not real. And after BD, I did a LOT of blaming and told H everything was his fault and he agreed, so I never acknowledged I'd done anything wrong or should change anything.
I need help now, because he replied first thing this morning:
Yes they are I have still run out of money though of course! I have had a little go at editing a video together, it is really hard and time consuming! That sounds really good counseling is good so far then?
Ignore the question about counseling and bring it back to GAL? Stop talking about myself at all? Validate his comment on editing? Ignore the text? Yeah...I still have a lot to learn!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.