There's a fair bit unknown. Mine was contacting in the beginning, then I found out ow was long term.
For me I wasn't even remotely capable of being his bestie, which is what he wanted. I quote. "I'm sorry but we will have our life doing xyz and friendship and you will just have to get used me having ow's and gf" mmmmmm nope.
When I know I'd been played for s suck, nc. Not sure the done status. There were too. Many lies, which still keep coming.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26