Originally Posted By: Jbird
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Jbird, you must stop making your life and your posts about your wife's latest antics or what her plans are or the man you think she's interested in.

The OM is NOT relevant to your life. He's beneath your noticing.

Just focus on YOUR LIFE and your kids. The rest speaks for itself.

How are your GAL plans going? Yeah, get back on track now. Back to DB 101.

GAL, Detaching and any of the 180s you chose to work on.


Below, I crossed out the parts of your posts that you must Stop allowing inside.

Really, these things do NOT matter to your life.


Today W called D25 to ask her to move to Mt where OM stays in prison. W thinks no one knows about her and the OM. She told D25 the cost of living is too high in Houston and wants D25 to go with so she don't feel like she is abandonning her. What about S22 and Special Needs D20? D25 told her no!

It's going to tear the heart right out of SND20! All for a wonderful alchoholic who beats women, and threatens the lives of police officers and their families.

Now my phone is blowing up with text messages, W is at the NBA game in Dallas tonight with her employer. W and I are big basketball fans so she is having a blast. Also called about the arena and the players before the game started. She got to see the owner too!


I'm trying to stay busy, but I hate this!



Jbird, change your focus now

or surrender to the insanity your wife's issues create for you.

YOU HAVE A CHOICE HERE^^^

Stay stuck, OR Change and Move On...you have gotten a lot of great advice here. Read it again and again til it sinks in and

til you start making the changes only you can make in your life.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change