Hi Maybell, I'm not sure how much it's on your mind when you think of splitting time with the kids, but don't fret too much about losing time with them. Of course it's not the ideal path we envisioned when we got married and had kids, but you will adjust and probably even enjoy your alone time. Losing half of my time with D2 was almost the end of the world for me last summer. I still miss her sometimes, but it allows me to recharge in my off time and to pursue other interests.
As you know, there are some very wise people here, so keep sharing any thoughts you have on this topic. Odds are, you won't be the only one to learn from them.
And sorry I haven't been around much lately!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23