Hopeless in NYC

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I'm taking a personal day tomorrow to rejuvenate, but seeing as how we might be having crappy weather I sent a text message to the W asking about possibly driving our daughter to school. She turned me down, then once again started asking about getting the ball rolling on the divorce. Is this some sort of trigger? She's allowed to ask for things, but I'm not allowed to offer?

I'm just going to continue ignoring for now since it still causes my anxiety levels to skyrocket every time she brings it up. But I think if push comes to shove, I'm going to have to decline bowing out gracefully and drag the divorce out as long as humanly possible...and then some. Just because she can't remember the "for better or worse" part, doesn't mean I should just as easily throw in the towel. If she hates our family so much, then there's nothing else I can do but try and fend her attacks off as long as possible. How tragic that we ended up switching roles.