wife during deployment EA/PA continued.

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Nice...I told you you'll make progress ..slowly but surely.
I used to look at it as a "game" sort of too like you said in the end. But it's one where you should also to expect to 'lose'...or at least lose what your original goal was, but WIN in another way than expected (becoming a better person, succeed in life, maybe have a different much better relationship one day)...life is LONG!!

Funny I cooked for the first time in 2 months yesterday haha. I used to cook a lot...and tmrw I'll make killer goulash. Since W still is my roommate not sure if I should offer her some. I did yesterday but she had eaten already but tried some.