Complex #4 - D talk started / Detaching continues

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Did anyone read Jack Ito "Connecting through saying yes" and "How one of you can bring the two of you together" by Susan Page?

General update: my GAL projects are going well and I feel some energy coming back into me. Plus I feel better detached although I use this forum her Asa catalyst to rant, vent and ask questions to which most if them I know the answer already. But I occupies me and I always get new advice here...or old one that I still didn't dig well enough.
Valentine's day I have a date at the Casino playing a poker tournament lol.
College classes are going well. Work is getting better, social life starts improving.
IC helps too. That was a huge step for me personally. Never thought I'd need or do that.

There's a family/ family friends event coming up which I'm scared of. I committed to it long time ago helping setting up and pouring wine and doing some wine education. I don't know who will be there (not even if W is going), neither do I have any idea if soneone knows yet. Gonna be rough but I said I'll help so I will.