Hi vdubber, you did fine. It is proper to communicate with your W about s9 being sick. Offering to pick up d7 was nice, and it had the added benefit of your avoiding spending time with W. If you are not ready to see W, then go ahead and avoid her.
It seems like you are having a tough time keeping your mind off of W. I realize that with as long of a time that you were together that you want answers (the dreaded "why" question). But you can't get answers right now. It is time to get the focus back on you, and get out there and GAL. Peace.
