Crikey Maybell, I do feel for you. It certainly doesn't sound like he's worth wasting any energy on. Total abdication of any rsponsibility.
I see you've had loads of suggestions which I can't really add to apart from thinking if this isn't working, do something different. I'm afraid I don't know what sort of different. Maybe give up. Maybe I shouldn't say that.
(((Maybell)))
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner