Just realised wife of 12 years is having a MLC

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We've never really argued tbh. Minor stuff, perhaps about work, money. If anything since she changed I have ignored her new suggestions and ideas, and found excuses to not do them "we ant afford it", "I'm too busy", "that's of no interest to me" etc...

In the early years I was strong and confident and she struggled to cope in social settings or doing thing on her own. Over the years I have lost touch with most freinds and she has been my best/only freind. We have worked lived and gone out together, we did everything together from shopping to partying and everything in between. I have almost become agoraphobic and withdrawn the mor eu felt her wanting to explore. It's like our relationship dynamic has done a full 180 in terms of need/reliance.

I am off to therapy to work on my own self confidence issues, ones that for years I masked with a brash over confident personality...