I'll answer more fully later, but I'll just say, STBX is quite high up in his company and certainly has the freedom to spend more time with the kids if he chose to. He chooses not to. Same as he intentionally chose an apartment that does not have space for them (they don't have beds at his place and each of them has a little basket for toys, books, and clothes).

You can smack me around for this if you'd like, but... Is 2 hrs a week really worth all this energy?

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Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.